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♞♞博马♞♞波波教你如何修心养性
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6 y8 i2 F2 Q$ O. R( R 养性：使本性不受损害。通过自我反省体察，使身心达到完美的境界! o% @: X& d. _ D+ Y) T0 u
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怎样做到修心养性呢？
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+ ?, a, B5 B: \. P1. 生活在当下
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不要老是惦念明天的事，也不要总是懊悔昨天发生的事，而把精神集中在今天要干什么上。因为遗憾、悔恨、内疚和难过并不能改变过去，只会使当前的工作难以进行下去。
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" Y6 ?8 s: u L/ {9 }8 q/ z/ H5 r" q我们对远方发生的事无能为力，想也没有用；杞人忧天，徒劳无益；惶惶不安，对于事情毫无帮助。记住自己就是生活在此处此地，而不是遥远的其他地方。
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8 j m8 \3 \1 G- l) ~很多心理上的纠纷和障碍，往往是因为自己没有实际根据的“想当然”所造成的。如果你向领导或同事打招呼，他们没反应，你可能怀疑他们对自己有意见。其实，也许他们心事重重、情绪不安，没有留神你罢了。因此，不必毫无意义地胡乱猜想推测。
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0 g d: C# G. w8 A3 I5 K很多人整天所想的就是怎样做好工作，怎样考出好成绩，怎样搞好和领导、同事的关系等等，因而往往容易忽视或者没有心思去观赏美景，聆听悦耳的音乐等等。格式塔疗法强调作为思考基础的“感受”，比起思考本身更为重要。没有感受就无从思考，感受可以调整、丰富你的思考。
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7 Y3 W, Y. |0 E' B4 H2 L4 u* {愉快和不愉快是相对的，也是可以相互转化的。因此，人们要有接受不愉快情绪的思想准备。如果一个人成年累月，总是“愉快”、“兴奋”，那反而是不正常现象.
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人们往往容易在别人稍有差错或者失败的时候，就立刻下结论。“格式塔疗法”认为，对他人的态度和处理人际关系的正确做法应该是：先不要判断，先要谈出你是怎样认为的。这样做，就可以防止和避免与他人不必要的磨擦和矛盾冲突，而你自己也可以避免产生无谓的烦恼与苦闷。% N: \7 d* S4 v% A+ x
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. r8 E3 S4 l' S; Z" d2 X7. 我就是我，对自己负责
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不要说什么，我若是某某人我就一定会成功。应该从自己的起点做起，充分发挥自己的潜能。不必怨天尤人；要“从我做起，从现在做起”，竭尽全力地发挥自己的才能，做好我能够做的事情。
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人们往往容易逃避责任。比如，考试成绩不好，会把失败原因归罪为自己的家庭环绕不好，学校不好；工作不好，会推诿说领导不力，条件太差等。把自己的过错、失败都推到客观原因上。“格式塔疗法”的一项重要原则，就是要求自己做事自己承担责任。
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; p6 Y! e9 e% g- M2 f5 M$ ]8. 正确地自我估计
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把自己摆在准确的位置上。每个人在社会中，都占据着一个特定的位置，所以你就得按照这个特定位置的要求，去履行你的权利和义务，你如果不按照社会一致公认和大家都共同遵守的这个规范去做，那你就会受到社会和他人对你的谴责和反对。7 e- G7 M/ d9 `: b- D4 Y: i
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修心养性益健康
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修心养性，就是让人心不致动荡不安，达到陶冶情操，平衡心态，事事想得通，顺其自然规律，积极适应环境，把握好自己的情绪，做到控制好自己心情，不生不切实际的妄念。这样人体心情处在心平气和状态下，生理功能平和有序，达到了养生保健，心理平衡，心态良好，这种状态就有利于身心健康。
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: _; ^% h6 g' a3 s在此，波波特此与大家分享修心养性之道，不仅在人际生活中，事业中，而且在进行投注的过程中，也是起到决定性的作用的，人的性格决定以后是否成功，性格不易更改，但是后期的培养却可以改变以后的道路，波波衷心希望大家在日常生活中也能修心养性，找回自己，展现出最好的自己！. n; O5 o+ m3 g* S
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